Happy holidays, ladies! I can’t believe 2017 is wrapping up so quickly. Personally, this year has been a good year. It’s been a time of extreme growth in my spirituality and self-development. Now that 2018 is just a few days away, I’m looking forward to the new year with a clean slate and ready to make it my own. New Year’s Eve can feel uncomfortable for some because of fear of uncertainty. Rather than embrace 2018 with fear, take back control by entering the new year by feeling prepared. Here are some tips to help you be ready for 2018.
1.) Take Time To Reflect
People can take silence for granted. Taking a time out for yourself, even if it’s just 10 minutes a day, to sit and reflect on this past year will be beneficial for your 2018 success. Don’t shy away from taking a look at what went wrong and take responsibility in whatever role you played in that scenario. But also, take pride in what you were able to accomplish! This will give you a stronger foundation when the clock strikes midnight on New Year’s Eve.
2.) Let Go of Old Drama
Though the holidays are supposed to be a joyful time of year, December can be rough for many people. However, this doesn’t mean you have to let drama, betrayals, or any negative experiences define you. There is no point in carrying old baggage with you into 2018. No matter what occurs between now and the new year, take the good, leave the bad, and the ugly. You will thank yourself for doing so.
3.) Go Into the New Year With A New Perspective
Try cultivating a positive mindset or, at least, tell yourself that you choose to start seeing life through a more positive lens if you have always done the opposite. For example, I use to see failure a terrible thing that stays with me. Now, I see failures as lessons that I can always bounce off from and I’m not defined by my mistakes.
4.) Know What You Want To Experience Next Year
If you don’t know exactly what you want to achieve next year, that’s fine! Instead, focus on what you want to experience. Maybe you want to travel but don’t know where you want to go. Or maybe you want a new job but all you know is that you want something more creative than what you are doing now. My point is, you do not have to have everything figured out. Just know what you want in 2018 and let God (or the universe) take care of the how.
Remember, you got this and have a happy New Year!